How To Be Special To Anyone In The First Meet

Even before your lips part and the first syllable escapes, the essence of YOU has already axed its way into their brains. The way you look and the way you move is more than 80 percent of someone’s first impression of you. Not one word need be spoken.Below are few magnet points which will be helpful in making a better first position in someone's mind.

1. Make your smile Magically different

Big winners know their smile is one of their most powerful weapons, so they’ve fine-tuned it for maximum impact.Fine tune your smile, never smile too quick.The study showed women who were slower to smile in corporate life were perceived as more credible.

Think about history-making women like Margaret Thatcher, Indira Gandhi, Golda Meir,Madeleine Albright, and other powerful women of their ilk. Not one was known for her quick smile.
Study shows a big, warm smile is an asset. But only when it comes a little slower, because then it has more credibility.Train your lips to erupt more slowly. Thus your smile will appear more sincere and personalized for the recipient.Keep minimum 1second delay in your smile to anyone so that it will look special and just for them.

Don’t flash an immediate smile when you greet someone, as though anyone who walked into your line of sight would be the beneficiary. Instead, look at the other person’s face for a second. Pause. Soak in their persona. Then let a big, warm, responsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes.
It will engulf the recipient like a warm wave. The split-second delay convinces people your flooding smile is genuine and only for them.

2. Make your eye's look more intelligent

maintaining strong eye contact gives you the impression of being an intelligent and abstract thinker.
Research shows “the more eye contact, the more positive feelings".
When you look intently at someone, it increases their heartbeat and shoots an adrenaline like substance gushing through their veins.7 This is the same physical reaction people have when they start to fall in love. And when you consciously increase your eye contact, even during normal business or social interaction, people will feel they have captivated you.
Pretend your eyes are glued to your conversation partner’s with sticky warm taffy. Don’t break eye contact even after he or she has finished speaking. When you must look away, do it ever so slowly, reluctantly, stretching the gooey taffy until the tiny string finally breaks.

If you deal with customers or clients in your professional life, Sticky Eyes is a definite boon to your bottom line. To most people in our culture, profound eye contact signals trust, knowledge, an “I’m here for you” attitude.

3. Make yourself look like a Big Winner

The goal of this is not to make you look like a real big spender. Rather it is to give you the cachet of a real big.
"A smile framing lips and softening eyes." this is the look winners have constantly.They stand with assurance. They move with confidence. They smile softly with pride.

4. Make your posture your key to success

Habitual good posture is the first mark of a big winner.As you ascend high above the gasping crowd, your body is stretched into perfect alignment—head high, shoulders back, torso out of hips, feet weightless. At the zenith of the tent, you spin like a graceful top to the amazement and admiration of the crowd craning their necks to watch you. Now you look like a Somebody.

The instant you are introduced with someone, reward your new acquaintance. Give the warm smile, the total-body turn, and the undivided attention.Try to show them think he/she is very, very special.Remember, buried deep inside everyone is a big baby who is rattling the crib, wailing out for recognition of how very special he or she is.